After Four Marriages and Recent Split From Affleck, Jennifer Lopez Says Marriage Is No Longer for Her

During her July 16 concert in Bilbao, Spain, Jennifer Lopez made a bold statement about her future plans regarding marriage. In response to a fan’s sign proposing marriage, the 55-year-old singer replied, “I think I’m done with that,” adding, “I’ve tried that a few times.” The comment came less than a year after finalizing her divorce from Ben Affleck, sparking discussion among fans about her evolving views on love and relationships.

Reflecting on Four Marriages, Personal Growth, and Shifting Priorities After Heartbreak

Lopez has been married four times: to Ojani Noa (1997–1998), Cris Judd (2001–2003), Marc Anthony (2004–2014), and Ben Affleck (2022–2024). With Marc Anthony, she shares 17-year-old twins, Max and Emme. Despite these relationships, her recent comments suggest a shift in priorities, as she reflects on the emotional toll and lessons learned from her past marriages.

While her split from Affleck attracted public attention, Lopez insists there is no animosity. In an Interview magazine profile from October 2024, she revealed that the breakup was a personal wake-up call. “You have to be complete if you want something that’s more complete,” she said. She admitted she initially thought she had reached that place, only to realize she needed time alone to truly grow.

Learning Self-Worth, Embracing Motherhood, and Finding Strength Beyond Romantic Relationships

The Hustlers star emphasized that her time apart has taught her valuable lessons about self-worth and independence. “Being in a relationship doesn’t define me,” she said. “I can’t be looking for happiness in other people. I have to have happiness within myself.” This newfound mindset marks a significant departure from her previous reliance on romantic relationships for emotional fulfillment.

Despite the heartbreak, Lopez finds strength and pride in her role as a mother. In a May 2024 interview with El Pais, she spoke about how her children helped her navigate tough times. “I’m proud that I was able to navigate my children through difficult times, that they’re stronger and better because of it,” she said. For Lopez, her bond with Max and Emme has become the most meaningful and enduring result of her life’s romantic journey.